I figured it would be nice to have this on my site in case I need to check and know what to give for friends who've reached *gasp* 100 years of wedded bliss!
According to "ETIQUETTE FOR MODERNS" by Elinor Ames (1965)
"Although the first anniversary is considered the paper or plastic one, the second, cotton and so on, it is not mandatory that the gift be of the "appropriate" material or composition for the specific year. The exception is in the case of the tenth (tin or aluminum) and twenty-fifth, which is known as the "silver anniversary." In these cases, the gift usually "goes" with the anniversary. For other years it is equally correct, and often more interesting, to buy what seems appropriate for the particular couple and carry out the theme in the wrapping or decorating of the package. Thus a gift for the seventh anniversary could be wrapped in copper-colored paper, a lace handkerchief might decorate the package for the thirteenth, and so on."
Traditional & Modern Anniversary Gifts
| Anniversary | Traditional Gifts | Modern Gifts |
|---|---|---|
| 1 Year | Paper | Clocks |
| 2 Years | Cotton | China |
| 3 Years | Leather | Crystal, Glass |
| 4 Years | Fruit and Flowers, Linen | Appliances |
| 5 Years | Wood | Silverware |
| 6 Years | Iron | Wood Objects |
| 7 Years | Wool (Copper) | Desk Sets |
| 8 Years | Bronze | Linens, Lace |
| 9 Years | Pottery (China) | Leather Goods |
| 10 Years | Tin, Aluminum | Diamond |
| 11 Years | Steel | Fashion Jewelry |
| 12 Years | Silk | Pearls, Colored Gems |
| 13 Years | Lace | Textiles, Fur |
| 14 Years | Ivory | Gold Jewelry |
| 15 Years | Crystal | Watches |
| 16 Years | Peridot | Silver Holloware |
| 17 Years | Watch | Furniture |
| 18 Years | Cat's eye | Porcelain |
| 19 Years | Aquamarine | Bronze |
| 20 Years | China | Platinum |
| 21 Years | | Brass, Nickel |
| 22 Years | | Copper |
| 23 Years | | Silver Plate |
| 24 Years | | Musical Instrument |
| 25 Years | Silver | Sterling Silver |
| 26 Years | | Original Pictures |
| 27 Years | | Sculpture |
| 28 Years | | Orchids |
| 29 Years | | New Furniture |
| 30 Years | Pearl | Diamond |
| 31 Years | | Timepieces |
| 32 Years | | Conveyances (car, automobiles) |
| 33 Years | | Amethyst |
| 34 Years | | Opal |
| 35 Years | Coral (Jade) | Jade |
| 36 Years | | Bone China |
| 37 Years | | Alabaster |
| 38 Years | | Beryl, Tourmaline |
| 39 Years | | Lace |
| 40 Years | Ruby | Ruby |
| 41 Years | | Land |
| 42 Years | | Improved Real Estate |
| 43 Years | | Travel |
| 44 Years | | Groceries |
| 45 Years | Sapphire | Sapphire |
| 46 Years | | Original Poetry Tribute |
| 47 Years | | Books |
| 48 Years | | Optical Goods (telescope, etc) |
| 49 Years | | Luxuries (any kind) |
| 50 Years | Gold | Gold |
| 55 Years | Emerald | Emerald |
| 60 Years | Diamond | Diamond |
| 75 Years | Diamond, Gold | |
| 80 Years | | Diamond, Pear |
| 85 Years | | Diamond, Sapphire |
| 90 Years | | Diamond, Emerald |
| 95 Years | | Diamond, Ruby |
| 100 Years | | 10 carat Diamond |
Cath :) 21 years na kami, now mo lang ito pinublish? hehehe..paano ko ma-ko-collect yung previous years? well well babawi na lang ako next year!
ReplyDeleteI am not so ambitous to demand a 10 carat diamond..so let it be..:)
ReplyDeleteYou are right Cat. 33 years is Amethyst. This is a good reference list.
ReplyDeletehehehe..I only give every 10 years na anniversary...so antay ka muna 9 years...*wink*
ReplyDeletehehehe..that would mean all of us are beyond the age of 100 years na...maybe I would have forgotten my name na at that time...
ReplyDeleteand thanks to Joey remarking in another post mag 33 years na sila ng better half nya *wink*, I thought of putting this here...
ReplyDeletehehehe..naisip ko if Pearl..e di samahan ko si Pearl papunta dyan sa yo to celebrate 30 years *double wink this time*
ReplyDeleteThank you Cat. 32-1/2 years na kaming nag tiyatiyaga sa isa't isa:-)
ReplyDeletebut its good ha...kc divorce is there in the US..mabilis lang na way out for some folks...its getting rarer and rarer to see the younger generation even reach their 10th year without some splitting up happening..so Congratulations again!
ReplyDelete*pssst, pasakay sa purple jet nyo ha?*
thanks for sharing Cath! at least may idea na ako what to give next! hehehhe....
ReplyDeletehehe, or Peachy...what to expect di ba?
ReplyDeleteI'd give this on any anniversary!
ReplyDeletepersonal na personal..aprub!
ReplyDeletewag lang limerick siguro..or poetry pa ba yan?